如何处理来自“祝福人”的消极情绪？

这些是我妈妈的父亲，居住在ys的各个部分。我父亲的亲戚是菲律宾的亲戚要求钱。没有父亲的亲戚访问或打电话。我知道这一切都听起来很困惑，但这是移民生活的复杂性。肥皂歌剧我知道，但这是坚韧不拔的现实。爸爸的亲戚有这种漠不关心的模式，它们甚至给我的祖母表现出来，所以这并不奇怪。我不喜欢爸爸完全孤立，所以当我妈妈的姻亲称之为时，它通常是负的，但至少是它的东西。我只是觉得他们假设他已经垂死了，我并不否认他的病情正在恶化，但他们不需要擦入它。
我希望这对你来说是澄清的故事。许多移民故事都很复杂，各个地方的人，除非你穿着鞋子，否则很难想象它。我认为阿富汗的局势带来了非美国非西方文化的纯粹心痛和复杂性。感谢您的耐心和理解，我知道似乎非常混乱。原因是我努力让我咨询是我花了很多课程时间，只是解释背面的故事，就像我现在一样。看看我需要花多少时间提供背景？疲惫是轻描淡写的。

良好的建议！这些消息会毁掉所有来源的电话。文本，电子邮件，社交媒体。我对某些人的界限放在了，但这是它可能是文化的东西。Filipinos love yo gossip, I’m not stereotyping but it is endemic to my culture, when I choose to ignore one that person starts raging and ‘reporting’ it to the grapevine, which then starts buzzing about how I’m not a good Christian, sad to say but in this culture m—a d especially when there’s groupthink and large families—it becomes a form of mobbing a d ganging up, really challenging as I’m an only child versus these big families of seven-plus siblings who think their relatives are always right.I’ve talked to several Asian elderly folks who agree that boundaries and emotional empathy are not prioritized in the culture, they themselves are aggravated.

这是很好的建议，但他们不尊重界限，如果在文化方面，家人和朋友应该随时敞开大门。我知道这对美国人来说很难理解，但这就是移民生活的复杂性

Both his primary doctor and oncologist warned me about him not lasting beyond December, they’re trying to prepare me and I’m aware but hearing people rub it in dies hurt especially because the person saying it has a history of bragging and always making his family Gus kids always look “better”, he has not experienced this illness and his kids are lucky their parents are alive but honestly they’ll never understand how painful it is to lose a parent, I pity them when that time comes, as they are now so smug and holier than thou.
谢谢你的建议!
如此感谢这个论坛，这让我是真实的和原始和脆弱的，它正在治愈。
上帝保佑，谢谢